Dealing With Relationship Insecurity | 10 Tips To Handle Insecurity
In this video
men's style, grooming, fitness, relationship and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino
shares with you 10 tips for dealing with relationship insecurity. Relationships
are hard enough without being super paranoid all the time. These 10 tips will
help you handle your insecurity and allow you to focus on the amazing and
beautiful person you have fallen in love with. Don't let your insecurities
sabotage a good thing.
Insecurities.
We all have them whether physical, finances, material, or other. Regardless,
nothing can kill a potentially great situation than relationship insecurity. We
all have insecurities but managing them is a key component for a happy,
healthy, and successful relationship. Aaron Marino of alpha m. presents ten
tips to overcome relationship insecurity.
1. Don't
judge your current relationship based on past relationship - don't make the
current pay for the deeds of the past.
2. Don't
confusion imagination with reality - don't read into everything. The best way
to squash this is to encourage open and honest conversations from the
beginning, when things are 'good'. Don't let your mind play tricks on you!
3. Stop
trying to mind read.
4. Once you
ask, don't keep asking! - once you're there, the relationship is over from the
persistent pestering.
5. Your
relationship needs room to breathe - if you are constantly standing over top of
the relationship, you'll smother it. You need to have your own things going on
including outside interests and friends. You are individuals that came
together.
6.
Relationships aren't always roses and puppies - the new relationship is like
walking on air. It doesn't last, however. You can't maintain that level of
emotional intensity. You'll have ebbs and flows. Don't bail on the 1st sign of
trouble! Keep nurturing and working, and it'll work itself out if it's supposed
to.
7. Do not
snoop! - if you reach that point, you'll never stop because you'll never trust
them! You can misread something and turn it into a situation.
8. Go with
your gut (instincts).
9. You are
responsible for your happiness and only your happiness.
10.
Relationships are supposed to feel good where you feel better when you're with
this person.
No comments