If He’s Pulling Away, Then You Should Do This. . .
- Here’s how I made the man of my dreams obsess over me and BEG to commit to me forever…
- After years of suffering, I finally figured out what makes a man eagerly devote himself and loyally commit to me using this unusual trick.
In case you
don’t know, I’m Rebecca and I’m a middle-aged woman living in the United
States.
I used to be
terrible with men. TERRIBLE. I just didn’t understand them. Picture the
clueless, frustrated woman who always thinks she has a great connection with
the guy she wants – only to be forced to watch him lose interest, pull away or
disappear from her life forever. That was me.
I had one
boyfriend who broke up with me because I was overly clingy. I was always afraid
he would leave me and guess what… he did.
It seemed to
me that men only wanted pretty, skinny girls or the super flirtatious type of
woman. Neither of those describes me so I just assumed I would spend my life
alone or settle for than less than I deserve.
I remember
watching women who really didn’t seem like anything special get high quality,
successful, funny handsome men who were very obviously head-over-heels in love
with them. Some of these women weren’t even good people…
Those women
would be treated like royalty and meanwhile I would just suffer through the
same pattern: Things would start out well with a guy, then soon enough he’d
pull away, lose interest and leave… I couldn’t understand it.
I figured
that all I would ever be to men was a “good short-term girlfriend”. I pretty
much gave up on dating entirely…
…Until a
random morning of searching the internet changed everything for me.
It was Sunday
morning and I was terrified…
Once again, I
had begun dating a man who I was really excited about – this finally seemed
like the relationship I had been waiting for.
But after we
had been together for a while, I started seeing those familiar signs again that
he was starting to pull away… and I was terrified I was going to lose him.
So I began to
search out the best advice on what to do…
I would need
to find a real expert.
Not someone
who talked the talk but couldn’t walk the walk. I had to find someone who had
it all. Someone who had a unique perspective on what men really wanted.
And then I
found him.
I found a man
named Nick Bastion claiming he knew “what every man needed,” and he had some
unique advice on exactly what to do if the man you want is pulling away…
The Biggest Mistake Women Make That Makes A Man Pull Away
Nick has been
a professional relationship counselor for over 10 years, and he’s studied love
like a doctor studies medicine…
And that day
he shared with me the most important thing he discovered:
“If a man
feels like you’re trying to get him into a relationship, 90% of the time his
male defenses get activated.”
“He won’t
consciously realize it, but his instincts will tell him that you are not “the
one”, and he will feel an overwhelming urge to push for his “freedom”,
“independence” and avoid connecting with you on an emotional level at all
costs.”
This must be
why my man was pulling away. The more I tried the further it seemed I was from
what I wanted. Nick had a further insight that changed my life…
He said: “A
man will unconsciously start to feel like he’s under attack when you ‘try to
get him into a relationship.’ It forces him to instinctually put his guard up,
emotionally withdraw, and go cold… and it kills any chance for love to take
hold in the relationship.”
“This is why
when you want love the most, you unknowingly sabotage your chances with the man
you really want. Before you know it, you find yourself desperately chasing his
love…or worrying that he’s not fully invested in the relationship.”
It was as if
a light bulb had gone off in my brain.
What I learned
next was life changing.
Nick said:
“On the other hand, if a man sees you as ‘the one’, then everything works in
your favor and he ends up chasing you. Instead of seeing you as a woman who is
trying to ‘lock him down’ and trap him, he sees you as his other half… the part
of him that he’s been missing his whole life.”
He continued…
“When he sees you as ‘the one’, his ‘soul mate’, instead of worrying about
having his ‘freedom’, he’ll feel like his life would be empty and meaningless
without you.”
“Instead of
him wondering if he’s settling or if he could do better, he’ll know with total
certainty that his search is finally over. That he’s finally complete.”
I finally
knew what I had been doing wrong. I had been chasing after love… and
unknowingly driving every man I wanted away. Instead, I had to make my man see
me as ‘the one’ and he would chase after me because he saw me as his soulmate.
I wanted more… How could I guarantee my man would see me as “the one”, his soulmate?
You can guess
that I was super excited to see what else Nick had to say. And when I saw he
was having a seminar in Los Angeles the following week I knew I needed to go to
learn what to do next. I didn’t want to mess this up.
I was
skeptical, of course. It’s really easy to say you know how to do all these
things, but actually knowing them? And more than that, knowing how to teach
them? That’s much more rare.
He offered a
seminar where he would teach his secret to make any man see you as “the one” to
a select group of women. I decided to go.
On the one
hand, he offered a complete refund to anyone not satisfied with his seminar, so
there was no risk to me. And if he was a joke, at least I could get a laugh out
of it. But…if he really knew his stuff, if he wasn’t all talk, this seminar
would be worth many many times the price that he charged.
I walked into
the seminar and took a seat at one of the tables.
The information I learned that weekend was like drinking from a fire hose of knowledge. It left me dizzy with all the wonderful possibilities.
Nick had all
kinds of useful relationship techniques to share. He also shared deep
psychological theories on…
Things like:
- How to make a man put you first in his life
- Why men fall in love
- How to make him chase you
- #1 thing men really want
- How to make a man beg to be with you forever
- How to bypass his emotional defenses and touch his heart
- Why he isn’t committing to you and exactly how to make him say “yes” now
- What he needs from you to eagerly commit forever
- How to make him desire you even if you think he’s slipping away
- How to reach even the most distant man
- What makes a man see you as the one
It was an
amazing event that really opened my eyes to the possibilities.
Since I’ve
attended the seminar here are just a few of the incredible results I’ve
experienced that I consider a miracle:
- I’m now happy in a relationship filled with passion and romance
- He actually just brought me flowers yesterday for no reason
- I feel I am finally being heard and my needs are getting met
- For the first time in my life I feel loved and cherished
It’s as if my
love life changed completely. Now you might be wondering why I’m sitting here
writing this article. The reason is that something awesome has happened and I
think you should know about it…
Nick is a
great guy who honestly cares about helping people. He travels all over the
world teaching these secrets to women of all ages and backgrounds. He really
has helped THOUSANDS of women have the relationship and love they
deserve.
Nick has
created a very unusual video that I think every woman should see. It’s based on
the seminar that I attended and it has a lot of the same information I learned.
If you are a woman who doesn’t have the perfect relationship you owe it to
yourself to watch.
This
information has transformed the way I understand men and my relationship
forever. In fact, I honestly believe it will change your life. It definitely
has changed my life. I finally have the happy, passion-filled fun relationship
that gives me butterflies and I have this information to thank for it.
Thanks for
reading. I hope you like the video and take action today to change your life.
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